Seeds of Success: The Reeder Family
A radio commercial piqued their interest in an information session about fertility options and also marked the beginning of Marisa and Steve’s journey at RADfertility. “I happened to be driving home from work one day and heard a radio ad that RADfertility was going to have a seminar at a local hotel,” Marisa said. “I told my husband about it and we decided to go.” Marisa and Steve attended the event in 2012 at the Christiana Hilton and had the opportunity to meet all of the RADfertility physicians along with members of every department. “I decided to go just to hear a little more,” Marisa shared, “and I was wowed by the session. Having representatives from the different departments within RADfertility was wonderful. From that session alone, I knew immediately I wanted to switch to RADfertility and I knew what doctor I wanted as well.” Steve and Marisa decided to move on from their current reproductive practice that night and they made an appointment with RADfertility.
Advocacy In Action
Marisa was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) in November 2011 and knew she may have trouble conceiving due to the disorder. “Prior to my diagnosis, I had never heard of PCOS and I had no idea what it was,” she said. Marisa found herself explaining PCOS to others in an effort to raise awareness, “The way that I like to explain PCOS is that it causes a woman’s hormones to be out of balance. It can affect the way you feel, the way you look, and in some cases can lead to serious health problems.”
“Many women are fighting an invisible illness, so the biggest thing that I want people to know about PCOS is that it exists at all.“
Following her diagnosis, Marisa sought support for the disorder which led to a new initiative, the Facebook Delaware PCOS Awareness Support Group. “I started the support group in the fall of 2012 after feeling alone because I didn’t understand the disease,” Marisa shared. “Even though I had support from my husband and family, I was looking for other women going through exactly what I was going through.” Her advocacy efforts didn’t stop there. Supported by wonderful family and friends, Marisa launched the 1st Annual Delaware PCOS Awareness Walk in 2013 to raise funds for organizations that had a mission close to her heart. The Glasgow Park event grew exponentially and continued for four years with the walk proceeds benefitting the PCOS Foundation and the PCOS Awareness Association.
Marisa launched the Delaware PCOS Awareness Walk to raise funds for organizations with a mission close to her heart.
Taking The First Step At RADfertility
Steve and Marisa visited RADfertility’s Newark office for their first appointment with RADfertility in June of 2013. “It was a very informative appointment and he was very thorough. I appreciated his style of speaking with us,” Marisa noted. They also appreciated their doctor’s understanding when he addressed IVF as something they potentially would have to do and not necessarily a starting point.
Following their first appointment, Marisa and Steve decided to move forward with the work-up process. The work-up is part of the diagnostic treatment process at RADfertility and involves an initial exam and ultrasound, followed by prenatal lab work for both male and female partners. The physician uses this information to create an individualized treatment plan based on their recommendations and the patient’s goals. Their doctor reviewed the results from their testing with the couple and once again confirmed Marisa’s PCOS diagnosis. Marisa and Steve started their first round of treatment at RADfertility in November 2013 with an intrauterine insemination (IUI).
The Third Time Is The Charm
Unfortunately, after two unsuccessful IUI attempts, Marisa and Steve decided to move on to IVF in June 2014. Marisa said, “I was an ideal candidate for Step-It-Up IVF so we started with that. My body did not respond well the first time, so we tried a second time. The second round included some alterations to the medicine I was taking, but it was still unsuccessful.” Marisa also noted how important Steve’s support was through the process. “Not only did he come to almost every appointment, but he was my hand-holder and injection buddy,” Marisa stated. “Needles stress me out, but Steve is worse, and generally passes out at the sight of blood. He would prep my needles, fill the medicine, and get the alcohol wipes prepped so that I could just clean the area and inject quickly. We became a team.”
After two unsuccessful IVF attempts, Marisa and Steve remained hopeful that the third time was the charm. “It felt like a lot of failure over and over again,” Marisa said. Her doctor was also a source of hope during the tough times. “He always made me feel like there was some other option. Whatever it took, we were going to do something to get there.”
Marisa kept a journal of all of her thoughts and feelings throughout the treatment process. “The journal helped me in a few ways,” Marisa shared, “it helped me remember the years of treatment and also reflect on what I had been through and accomplished.” The couple started their third IVF cycle in January 2015 and were filled with joy as it went well, resulting in ten frozen embryos. Of those ten embryos, one was transferred on April 10, 2015, and two weeks later, Marisa and Steve heard the words that they had been longing to hear, ‘You are pregnant!’
Marisa and Steve’s daughter Lily was born on January 6, 2016.
‘A Place Where a lot of my Problems Were Solved’
Marisa and Steve reflected on their time at RADfertility. “I tell everyone that for me, RADfertility is a place where a lot of my problems were solved,” Marisa shared. The couple valued the welcoming environment at RADfertility and that they felt like they were a part of the bigger RADfertility family. “I felt like they knew us, they remembered us, and were invested in us on a personal level vs. just a number in a book. RADfertility has been the best patient/physician relationship I have ever had.”
“When you are going through treatment, it is important to remember there will always be sunshine around the corner. Don’t give up.”
Marisa’s 4-year fertility journey with PCOS led to a happy ending, the sweetest little girl named Lily, in January 2016. In 2018, Marisa and Steve welcomed Rori and became a family of 4!
Photos courtesy of Sweet Pea Photography by Dawn Eby
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